Sunday, May 25, 2008

till death do us PART

Arushi Talwar .... does the name ring a bell .. i am sure it does more than just ring a bell .. it gives us these goosebumps .... makes our hearts think of that 14 yr old who wud've enjoyed a birthday party with her friends .... they wudve giggled the night away ... danced .. had pillow fights ... and slept after talkin about school .. and painting their toe nails .......... but that didnt happen .. somethin not even close to it happened ...... she was murdered ..... in the night .... by whom .. i dunno .. and i dont care .. all that i care about is her ...... the fact that she was a scholar in DPS .... she had pretty eyes ... she was funny .. and creative ... she had an autobiography made ...and she was a quiet girl....... her parents lost a daughter .. her friends lost their closest confidante .... her relatives lost a niece ..... her school lost a scholar ................ no one knows what it is to lose someone .. until u have actually lost someone ................when it is someone u know .. near or far .. it pinches .......
i am studying mass communication ...... i am supposed to be tomorros media person ....... believe me after i hear .... all these news channels going on about arushi's death like some ant got squashed.... i am ashamed to call myself .. a mass comm student .................. they reached stages where they were like ... "her dad killed ... her mom killed ... the neighbour killed "... all this who said .. "the police" ........ the media needed one word and they really made it a paragraph ...... i dunno who killed her (i hope he or she .. or they ... rot on the foot paths of noida..i hope they r chewed on by dogs and maggots ... and kicked by people like they were stone...)....now u know how angry i am with .. them .......ya back to the point ... Why would a father want to kill his daughter .. if they claim that he is having an affair ....... why wud he want to loose that precious kid .. who calls him papa .... and tells him to come into the pool ... and plays sharades with him .... and does him proud by doing well at school ... who wud believe that he wud slit her throat .......... who wud believe that he is the same man who cried ... when they were going to cremate the body .. of DADDYS LITTLE GIRL ............... the media has lost its emotions .... it has lost its humility ... it has lost its conscience .. it will do anythin .. anythin .. to get its trps .. up ......... if thats tomoros media .. i dont want to be it ..... i dont want to be in it ..........
my mom keeps sayin ... the world is not as how we picture it .. it is mean ... everyone is mean ...... i completely agree .... we have lost any trace of feeling ... it is more a kill every damn thing in ur path to reach the top ............ then just being a dog eat dog world ........ i dont think weddings shud have the line "till death do us part"anymore because .... we have reached that stage as a community , a country, a continent , the world ...... where we will do anything ... be it murder.. deceit ... frame ups .. greed..... anything . to get to the top ............aurevoir

24 comments:

nids!!! said...

i like the way you have written this article! its full of anger and emotion! i dont wanna say anything about the content cause im not sure who im pissed at! but i like that you blog about so many diff issues and do so with love and passion for all! its nice :)

shuuuu said...

thanks nids ...... i am pissed at soo many pppl .. so just had to write ... thanks ... ..

Vinayak said...

sad but true..its a nasty world out der...and yeah the Indian media is losing it...buh that my dear aishu shudnt stop u;)
the world needs lunaticly sane(if thats even a word) people like u:)

Robin said...

Hey Kothi Pilla....
I can u'stand your emotions nd I also know how it is to lose someone. Im totally with U on this one, media is insane nd disgusting which lacks common sense but U no wat? it has been like this for decades, one incident cannot change them..But all this has nothing to do with "Marriage" my dear, "till death do us part" is for those people who have learn't to Luv one another and share it with others (who by the way are the rarest of beings). And maybe God will use such to make it a better place nd im sure u'l be a part of it... Nyways nice to see you write these articles, they are so full of life nd some ofcourse makes me nd my baby hold our stomachs nd laugh.. Do take care nd keep doing what u're good at - I meant writing these articles...P:)P:) Luv u... Mmmmwah

nids!!! said...

exactly babe! too many things in this issue are loopholes! we are stuck not knowing whos the biggest criminal! one way or the other they all are i guess! :) but thats what i enjoy about ur writing! you write without caring about whos reading or what anybody thinks! you write exactly what your heart says! and thats def a talent! ummaaah! keep writing! :)

shuuuu said...

heheh firstly thanks vin ... thanks for callin me lunaticly sane ...... i am guessing ..that is a new coined word heheheh ..... i agree on the world needin .. crazy freakos like me .... but still .the media is sad .... i mean can stoop down to any level sad ..... but thanks for the new word ... glad u liked what i wrote .... :P....:P

shuuuu said...

hey robin anna ... i know the media .. is like that ... i know it is .. crazzyyy and .. mean and very nasty .. what i am afraid off . is that .. i am the future media ... and the thought of tormenting a father to say he killed his little girl .. just hurts ..... so thats why i said that ..... and the reason till death do us part .. is because no matter what i will leavve u only when i die ..... not it has changed to .. i will kill u get ur money and stay happy dats why i said that .......... am reallly reallly glad ... u liked the stuff i write .. tell ur baby hi .. hi to u tooo ... thanks will continue writing ... and will make u laugh ... thats one job i like doing ... :P:P.... heheh muaaahhhhhh

shuuuu said...

nids .... its not the number off loopholes .. or the criminals .. it the frame ups ..i cant bear ... anyway ... muaaaaaaaaaahhhhh .. thanks for the ...comment .. i love writing ... and cant help i just say what i feel .. u must no ... :P:P.... hehehe muaaaaaaahhhhh

...643... said...

u cnt jst blame da media lik tht...jst bcos she s hs daughter nd every father s supposd t love hs child doesn mean tht he dn kill her...mayb he dn yea bt mayb he did who knos?...u cnt expect every girl t b daddys little princess..ther r a million incidents lik ds...mayb media s jst speculating an othr 1..mayb...nd yea u probably havent heard abt dat bastard who raped hs daughter fr 12 long years confining her t a small room n hs basement...aishu wen ther s good thers bad too..newayz good post...

shuuuu said...

srikar ..... i wrote the post .. knowing that this world is a bitch of a place .. with tons of shit happenin ... the reason i did blame the media ... is because .... the first rule when u learn media .. is u find ur source of discourse .... and the media has lost alll its rules and ethics .. it dint have and still doesnt have substantial evidence ...to who killed her ... and agreed there r some dads who were just supposed to be dead .. but they were busted on the evidence .. not frame ups .....anyway ... thank u ...

...643... said...

the first rule when u learn media .. is u find ur source of discourse ....


wen da police themselves hav OFFICIALLY claimed that ’honour killing’ or extreme passion could have been the motive behind aarushs murder...wat d u expect da media to do?support aarushis father inspite an official statement frm da dgp himself n a press conf?...nd may i ask wat evidence d u ahv t prove dat her fathr s innocent nd t ws a frame up...

shuuuu said...

srikar because the dgp stated it was an honour killin or a case of extreme passion ... doesnt mean he said ... arushis dad is completely guilty ... he didnt find the murder weapon .... he didnt find similarities of the cases except that they had their throats slit .... they were 4 hrs apart .... there were other ppl involved apparently .... there were equal chances the mom did it ..... how come the media didnt take any of that into consideration ...... plzz dont believe all the dgp tells u ... unless and until he is completely guilty .. and not murderer will readily agree for a lie detection test ... HER FATHER DID.............the police are lazy and media driven .. they will say i killed u .. even though u will happily be sitting and eating at .home .. so dont believe the media .. theyr nt the best truth tellers ....

dr div said...

there is a word for this my dear ,...its called a pecking party... do you know what that means?? when chickens are scrounging for food,[ bird brains that they are ],.. when they see anything that looks like food ... a seed/ tomato.. whatever ..they just peck..if unfortunately that happens to be a spot of blood on a chicken.. can you imagine what happens to that unsuspecting bird??.. thats the world for you. but whats sad is this mass media circus has started acting on a purely spinal response, with cerebralcortex excluded
. it was refreshing to hear the holy and pure comments from the undergrads of today, but the cynic that i am... i would like to know what some of you may do tommorrow for trps!

...643... said...

plzz dont believe all the dgp tells u ... unless and until he is completely guilty

well ya he ws arrestd on charges f a murder...hmm ok as u say he isnt completely guitly untill proven..fine bt hw cn u say tht hes nt involved..d u hav proof fr tht?...nd lie detection tests arent considerd as proof by da court(i dn rem under wich section bt ya they arent considerd)...abu salem,imtiaz javed r sm f da ppl who readily agreed fr lie detection tests...they arent proven guilty jst da police hav claimed tht they did t..nw wat? they r innocent too?

nd ya i completely agree wd da above post..

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shuuuu said...

mom ... heheheh .. yeah sorry i ditn find pecking party .. and i just said ma .. i dont want to be in that media ... i dont want to be .. the trp crazy reporter .. who will ask a neighbours wifes friend for something ... anyway ... thanks for the comment and heheh cerebral cortex ... ma .. sometimes out of medicine please

shuuuu said...

SRIKAR in abu salems .. and imtiyaz javeds case .. there were many reasons .. that were involved ... one they belong to the underworld .. which was well known .. two .. they did watever they id and most ppl knew ... 3 they were ready to accept the test because they has enuff money and ... ppl . to get them out .. and india isnt the most truthful place .. so obviously they wudve been out ..... innocent until proven guilty srik ... and her father hasnt been proven guilty .. till dat time the media should fuck up and not make their own versions ... dats all i have to say

shuuuu said...

karthick .. thank u and yeah will keep checkin ur blog tooo ....

websush said...

lack of emotion in anything it reports always was a forte of the media...a person's or a family's suffering is just another way of raising the trp's. venting ur anger in this way is one sensible way..look around you are not alone in this struggle for the revival of basic moral ethics back into the media... there has been a lot of anguish undergone by the family..but as it has been wisely said by Don Corleone, Some one, somewhere, somehow will have to pay.

websush said...

and in the end of it all, unless we take up a step, be it against lawless officials who jus make dum statements for the sake of a fickle bit of publicity, jus hosw how much of callibre they possess..n yepp, ur mum's driven the point home...its just another goddamn pecking party

jona said...

late comments I kno ...
but its still to be remembered... its already been subsided by the media.. They have nothin to say now unless they have somethin tats gonna hurt someone ..
well... Im pretty much disgusted by the way media finds a way to earn money at the cost of others lives ...

was deeply moved by the issue.. God knows the truth but waits! ..

most people believe what the media says... thinkin that they are the almighty true news carriers.. little do we know as to what really happened ...

p.s. - u shudnt remove the line 'till death do us part' from weddings... removin that is not gonna help ... changing ourselves will help .. changing the way we think will help .. that change will happen somehow ... to some - through this post :)

shuuuu said...

to jon .... i absolutely agree .... the media ... is such a facade ..... it hurts to see how normal people believe everything the media says ........ heheh yeah yeah so many ppl tellin me dont remove TILL DEATH DO US PART ........i dont think my post will change many lives ... maybe 5 ... but nope ... there will still be dat mean world where ... wifes will die .. and so will husbands ... for love for money .. for property ....and we will just watch the media publicise the fact ....... so whats the use of keeping those lines .. when i no .. i will rarely see a man and a woman ... happily married .till death actually does them part .... anyway thanks for the comment .....

jona said...

u will surely see a man and woman TILL DEATH DO THEM PART .. :) .. U will see many...

shuuuu said...

i hope i do ..... i hope i see smiles .. love bliss .. concern care ... giggles .. laughs ... madness .... youth ... in all men and women ......